The crying**

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The Crying

A small drop on your cheek can change more .. u maybe ask yourself ..how??
The crying is one of the blessings that Allah gave us . And as u know that Allah doesn't create any thing without aim. So, what are the advantages of crying ? let me ask u before I answer ..
Do u feel weakness and abashment when u cry???
or do u feel comfort ?? or nothing??
Most of people- especially men- don't like crying because they think that is a weakness sign .. others like it but when they are individually not
among people . So, for these types of people, I direct my speech .
Now , see what does the crying do when u are::

**sad**

it can extract your bad feelings by some tears in order to be comfortable .. but if u repress your sadness and don't let the tears take it out , u maybe take it out by the wrong ways .. so u will actually harm yourself

** happy**

it is a way to show others how much u are happy for them (I think it is more eloquent than talking )
and it is enough to fall some tears if u can't find a good word to phrase about your happy feelings.

Do u know why a woman cry more than a man??
because she has a lot of softy feelings which mean that she is a romantic person .

I think that is also an advantage of crying .
" not because I'm a woman but this is the true"

Finally, take it as an advice ..
if the desire for crying comes to u
Wherever & Whenever
just fall your tears and don't be shy

I'm waiting for your opinion about
the crying