Hi everyone, I'm joining

umm my first impression is probably ,, she looks nice and intelligent ,,, i think it would be interesting to know her
then ,, wait a sec is she like talking about anime ,,,, yeees XD

here is my question : facing a really hard decision between studying what you like abroad away from your family or staying with your family and studying something you are not really interested in and hard (medicine for example) which would you choose?